Moving? Finding common ground with your partner is key. If you are planning a move with your partner, I suggest both of you sit down separately and note what is important to you. Once that is completed, sit
down with your partner and discuss your priorities. Do this before you even begin to look for a new place. You may be surprised on how different your expectations may be from one another. This will help to prevent arguments and embarrassing moments with a realtor. Inevitably you will not agree on everything, but this step will help you both come to common ground prior to being inundated with choices. Once you hash out your priorities, come up with a list that you both can agree on. What are the ‘must haves’ and what are the uncompromising items for each of you. After you both are equipped with this list, then start to look at properties. This list will help keep you both on track and prevent disagreements. You will still have your moments, but at least you will have a tool to keep you focused on what is important and come to consensus.
Online applications like Pinterest and Houzz provide great visuals to help you both get an instant idea of what your partner envisions. It will also provide you with ideas of projects you are both willing to tackle and whether a contender is in the realm of possibility.
